What is friendship? Why do we call a person our friend? If we care for a person, if we are always ready to help that person and if we share most of our thoughts with a person, they are our good friends. Friend plays an important part in our lives, and although we may take friendship for granted, we often don’t clearly understand how we make friends. Well, my view of friendship is as follows.
Friend is someone, who changes your life by being part of it, who makes you believe that it really is good in the world, who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.
When you get into trouble, he will give you a hand. When you gain the achievement, he will come to congratulate you and give you a hug. When you lose your way, he will guide you to march on. When you are down, and the world seems dark and empty, he will lift you up in spirits and make that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full.
Well, some friendly relationships can be kept on argument and discussion, but it is usual for close friends to have similar ideas and beliefs, to have attitudes and interests in common.
However, have you known that the more intimately involved
people become, the more they rely on one another? Remember, your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be ok.
英语美文赏析:如何获得一份真正的友谊
Friends and valuative--On
Making Friends
Everyone needs friends, and if you fail to make friends, you should examine yourself and see if there is something wrong with your personality.
Maybe you have social faults such as snobbishness,
talkativeness and using slang etc, which drive away your new acquaintances. Whatever your social faults may be, look at them honestly and make real efforts to correct them.
To be friendly you must feel friendly. Cheerfulness is the basis of friendliness. A cheerful person smiles. A smile is a magnet which draws people. Smile at someone and you are almost sure to get a smile in return.
A friendly person does his best to make a stranger feel at home, wherever he happens to be. Put yourself in the other fellow's place and make them feel welcome.
Try to remember names. It makes your new acquaintances feel happy when you call them by their names. It gives them the feeling that they have made an impression on you and that mean something to them because you remember them.
If you don't agree with other people on a certain matter, you should appear to be friendly. Don't argue, but discuss. You always lose friends if you argue too much.
A friendly person thinks of others, and doesn't insist on his own \to consider others have few friends.
Finally, don't treat people only according to their social